Tag: ex boyfriend

• Todo lo que sabes

  Me dijiste tu nombre Me dijiste cómo te rompieron, cómo te hicieron mal tú me dijiste que conocías el amor y que me mostrarías cómo sanar Dijiste que resucitarías a los muertos en tres días Así que esperé Noventa y nueve días y noventa y nueve noches Me dijiste que era tu solPero desaparezco en…

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  May 9, 2023

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• Animal dreams

  You can judge me, but judgement is a kind of fantasy. You’re living in a fantasy that my world is different from your world, how the things I’m afraid of would somehow be less scary to you in your world. That the same monster is a different monster and A is not A. My world,…

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  April 21, 2023

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• Not me

  I remember getting an A for the first time in grade 4, and it felt so amazing that I started to be addicted to achievement. My brother came in my room and wanted to play but I yelled at him to go away because I wanted to study to achieve more because that was the…

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  April 17, 2023

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• Nothing should be Perfect and that is fine

  my dad was abused and he loved me but he never knew how to show it, and when I was a child I didn’t understand why it didn’t feel good enough. And I was very smart and curious but I always wanted to understand the mystery of whether I was loved or not. I wasn’t…

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  April 5, 2023

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• Slow

  Slow food Slow fashion Slow travel Slow love The good stuff that’s worth living for, the stuff novels are made of, take a long, slow time. this is the part where you reveal who you are through your life choices, through the adventures, the transformations of time. It’s when you don’t know what will happen…

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  March 18, 2023

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• Bad feminist

  I think I’m just going to have to keep forgiving myself for being a bad feminist. For every time I catch myself comparing myself with another woman or wishing another woman wasn’t so successful or skinny or popular or something better than me. I have to keep flowing with the waves of my confidence, as…

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  March 15, 2023

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• Inner child meets the present adult self

  there’s a scene in a movie where a kid is crying and scared and angry and hitting and punching an adult with tears streaming down her face, until exasperated, she breaks down crying and her little arms wrap around the adult that isn’t reacting but simply present and strong and calm. It feels like this…

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  March 12, 2023

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• Alone with the sea

  I have had many conversations alone with the ocean 15 years ago, 3 years ago, 6 months ago. It asked me what is it like to be a woman with a family, to know people who have died, to feel pride and love and hate? I said being alive feels like a story And I…

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  February 27, 2023

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• Alone with the sea

  I have had many conversations alone with the ocean 15 years ago, 3 years ago, 6 months ago. It asked me what is it like to be a woman with a family, to know people who have died, to feel pride and love and hate? I said being alive feels like a story And I…

  sublimecourage

  February 27, 2023

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• Everyone left

  After everyone leaves After all his friends leave and spend sleepovers in Paris Im left alone with him With his immense love and darkness And I accept I accept this life and this nonlife I accept the river of life that had no beginning or end I tried to accept and create a platform of…

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  February 18, 2023

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